If you where not following along with the problem I had, the rdr rules
in my nat file where not working.  Someone send me a private email that
resolved the problem.   I had:

rdr iy0 0/32 port 443 -> 192.168.0.x port ??? tcp

But 0/32 is not valid in a rdr, I had to use the real ip address.  Now I
simply need to write a script that will update the nat table every time
my IP changes...

I am off to do some dhclient_script hacking!

Sam