> [...much on mount option vs tunefs-frobbable bit...]

Why not both?  Two mount options, one to force it on and one to force
it off; if neither is specified, you get a default, which is settable
per-filesystem with tunefs.  Only minimally more work, and as far as I
can see satisifes the desires of everyone who's spoken up.

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