> Platform i386 running a rather recent current.
>
> I have a multi-homed system.  One connection is DSL (de1) and the other is with @home (ne0).
>
> >From a remote site, A (204.94.209.1), I can ping both connections and get responses.
>
> >From a second remote site, V (204.177.156.26), I can get ping to work on the DSL connection
> but, not on the @home connection.  On my local system, while pinging from V, I get:
 
> 08:39:22.400850 demeter.veritas.com > c528574-b.stcla1.sfba.home.com: icmp: echo request

Was this tcpdump from interface ne0?
You have no explicit route to 204.177.156.26 (or its subnet)
You have no ipf rules to force 204.177.156.26 traffic back out ne0.
Your ping replies are likely exiting on de1. 

Try traceroute -i ne0 204.177.156.26 and see if it tells you why your
replies can't get to V via the @home connection.

> Destination        Gateway            Flags     Refs     Use    Mtu  Interface
> default            205.219.89.41      UGS         6   903207   1500  de1
> 24                 24.1.4.193         UGS         5    13635   1500  ne0

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